Dynamic Living: Expecting the best from yourself.
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Make decisions that have you reaching out to others, expanding your energy and your abilities.
We get what we expect, what are your expectations?
What do you expect from yourself?
Your dynamic life is revealed by what you expect from yourself.
Yesterday we talked about creating support systems of people that have similar values as you do.
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Expecting the best from yourself is raising your standards from the inside out.
By lifting the way you feel about yourself, you get to attract people who feel good about themselves.
This is not the place for perfectionism, perfectionism actually has you feeling less empowered because to be perfect you have to be comparing yourself to someone or something else.
Comparisons are always harmful, comparisons feed directly into the not good enough feeling.
When we compare our now, to someone else, we are often looking at their best, and of course we never quite match up.
Even if we are better at some things, than others we still end up with a warped view of ourselves.
If you really must compare yourself, compare yourself with yourself. Ask yourself, “Did I do better today than I did yesterday?”
“What could I do better the next time I need to do this activity?”
When you expect better from yourself, and are willing to learn what you need to know to improve, then you get to silence the critical voice in your mind.
Striving for excellence from within will take you to places you never expected to go.
Raising your standards a little at a time, improving on the skill you are mastering one point at a time will create great shifts of expertise over time.
What can you do now that you couldn’t do a year ago?
What skills did you learn, and what did you have to let go of to do what you now do?
Dynamic living is having high expectations firstly of yourself, and for yourself, and then for others around you.
Dynamic living is aiming for excelllence is everything. The way you speak, the way you dress, the way to take care of your body, the way you wear your hair.
Everything builds a picture of who you are, and who you think you are. These may not be the same.
You may have bought into the line that you are only good for manual labour when your heart wants to be a draughtsmen.
Or maybe you have been told so often that women can’t have a family and study for a degree, that you have a picture of yourself as a mother but not a woman who has a degree.
Dynamic living is following your heart, it following the desire you have, and figuring out a way to make it your reality as you go.
Often we forget we can have this and that, instead of what we are trained to believe, that it is either or, either this or that, not both.
Aim for excellence, every time you do some thing do it to the best of your ability, keep expanding your expectations of yourself.
Stop comparing yourself with others, use others to learn from rather than a standard to beat. Perfectionism will stop you in your tracks.
Dynamic Living is possible as we expect the best from ourselves.
Today’s Pearl of Wisdom is Aim for excellence, not perfection.
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