How is your relationship with money?
For the longest time I ignored money, my belief around money and wealth was not healthy.
Would you like to have more money?
Do you know what that would look and feel like?
come with me today and investigate your money.
Welcome to Authentic Living Coaching, The Podcast,
I’m your hostess, Linda Codlin
I am a certified life coach, and the founder of Authentic Living Coaching.
I am passionate about helping you to help yourself.
It is my intention that each and every one of us has the
information we need to make the best decisions about the way we choose to live our lives.
Living life on your terms, and being your authentic self.
Hello, My Friends
Welcome to Episode # 26
Is your goal to generate wealth?
Are you the first person in your family to have this goal?
This is exactly where I am, it is an exciting and scary place to be.
Today I want to talk about money and creating new thought beliefs.
As I have mentioned before I come from a religious background where generating and keeping money, assets, and wealth was frowned upon.
Part of coaching and being coached is seeing the beliefs that are obvious to everyone else, but are hidden to you.
This week as part of my wealth growth mindset inspection, I asked myself the question: I am a woman who … Then I wrote down all the words that came to me, without filtering them, There are no right or wrong words, there are no positive or negative words, there are only words, so I wrote them all down.
If I asked you this question what would your answer be. I am a woman who … notice your answer, be kind to yourself and notice what comes up for you.
The answer to my question is, I am a woman who has my own back financially.
What does this look like for me?
This looks like a woman who doesn’t ask permission to purchase the things she wants/needs to support the style of life she has chosen. She is a woman who earns an income that supports herself and her family.
Did you answer the question, I am a woman who … What was your answer?
Take a moment to answer this question, Are you a woman who creates wealth for herself? Are you a woman who takes exquisite care of her body? Are you a woman who eats quality food?
Whatever your I am is, take a moment to think about what that might look like. What will you be feeling?
That was my next question to myself. The feeling I’m looking for by being a woman who has my own back financially is …
To feel empowered to create me the way I want without justification, or explanation. To have the ability to purchase what is important to me.
What is the feeling you are wanting to feel by being a wealthy woman?
Remember everything we do, we do for the feeling or emotion we believe we are going to gain from it.
By answering these three questions you will have begun to identify your destination.
If we are always seeking to move towards or away from an emotion or feeling, it makes sense to figure out what that feeling or emotion is.
In the past I have always tried to move away from situations with the energy of fear, lack and scarcity.
The energy you do something in, is the energy that the result will manifest in.
Ignorance does not stop this principle from working, as I found out.
I kept on changing my actions, but the resulting emotion was always the same. I was never happy, satisfied or content.
No amount of money I earned was enough to wash away the lack, scarcity or fear that lived within me.
I couldn’t buy love, not the genuine accepting love my soul was seeking.
I couldn’t buy worthiness, because worthiness isn’t for sale, it’s a quality we already have.
I couldn’t buy respect, not genuine respect that comes from having a strong character.
Having money and being loved, genuinely loved are two separate entities.
Having money and self-esteem are not the same thing.
Having money and feeling worthy are not tied together, ever. You are worthy, I am worthy because we are human and we exist.
Money doesn’t make you worthy.
If you have a fear that money will make you someone you don’t want to be, I’d say to you, money is an energy exchange.
You exchange your time, your ideas, your creativity, your energy for money.
Money will magnify and enhance who you already are. Money will expand you into more of who you are energetically.
If you live in the energy of fear, lack and scarcity, then money will magnify this energy.
However if you live in the energy of generosity and abundance, then money will also magnify this energy.
Money is an energy, it doesn’t care who it goes to.
It doesn’t care how you use it.
It doesn’t care about right and wrong.
Money is amoral, it is energy, it is up to you how you choose to use it, how you choose to put it to work, how you decide to be with money is how money will be.
I want to encourage you to generate wealth with an abundant energy.
Today’s challenge is to answer the questions above.
I am a woman who …
What does it look like to be this woman?
What feeling are you wanting to gain from being this woman?
If you want help to work your way through these questions, my contact details are below.
Remember everything you do, you do for the feeling you believe you will gain from doing the thing.
Have a fabulous day my friends. Until next time…
Remind yourself: I am a woman who generates wealth with an abundant energy signature.
Live your best life, one step at a time, Know yourself financially and live your life authentically.
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