Confidence: The cloak of invincibility
Hello, My Friends
Things will not always go the way we want them to.
People will not behave the way we think they should.
We won’t always do what we know we should.
And sometimes we will do things that we know we shouldn’t.
The question is how do you respond when life throws a curve ball at you?
It is in the way we react to the situations that we find ourselves in that show what we are really thinking about ourselves and others.
Confidence in who you are, and what you are about is evident when the pressure comes on, and the plans that you’ve made all disintegrate before you.
It is in the times of high stress, and chaos that who we really are and what we really think about ourselves show up.
Confidence is an attribute that allows you to know who you are, and that you can handle anything that comes your way.
Over the next few days I am going to cover a few steps to help you gain more confidence in your ability to manage confidently when life throws a curve ball at you.
I am going to show you a 5 step plan.
This plan like any other, will only work and give you more confidence if you use it.
Use it, tweak it, make it fit you, make it yours. It will serve you well.
The five steps are each an acronym of one key word.
1) Know the FACTS
2) Breathe- Be CALM
3) LISTEN
4) Communicate – CONVEY
5) RESOLVE
My intention is to give you the tools that you can use to create more confidence in your everyday.
Confidence is required when you are afraid, when things are not happening as you want.
Confidence is required when you need to speak your truth and others are not hearing you.
Confidence is with you always.
I imagine confidence is like an invisible shield, a cloak I wear, I put my cloak on and step into the role I need to, to do what I feel is important.
It allows me to speak my truth, and deflects the harm that others may intend for me.
It also stops me from beating myself up when I feel I have let myself down.
So, over the next few days, let’s put our confidence cloaks on and wade into learning how to combat the curve balls that life sends us.
Wear your cloak with pride.
Today’s Seed of Greatness is Make peace with your past, savour today, and saunter into your future.
oxox Linda
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