Confidence: Rescuing yourself

Hello, My Friends

Are you someone who likes to rescue other people?
Do you like to help people?
Do you attract people who need rescuing? Have you ever wondered why?

It’s an energy thing. Often we believe we need to be rescued.
And when we feel that we need rescuing we emit the signal to all rescuers and all who need to be rescued, that we are open for business.

What we consciously or unconsciously put out into the energy stream of vibration, we get back.

It took me a long time to figure this out.
I’d put a happy smile on my face, I’d act as if I was the happiest girl in the world, and yet underneath I might have been mad at the kids, the other drivers on the road, the lack of finances, and a million other little and not so little niggles.
I read the books on positive mental attitudes, and did all the things, and still I didn’t get what I thought I was putting out.
What I discovered was that I had to deal with all the hidden emotional baggage hiding underneath my plastered on smile.
I had to work on forgiving others, and especially myself.

I had to clean up the energy and emotions that I’d buried, and that were attracting to me everything.

Rescued or rescuing, neither are helpful to your personal growth.
In each case you are giving away your power to prove to yourself that you can take care of yourself, and stopping others from doing the same.
The rescuer often lives in other people’s lives because it is too confronting to live in their own.
The rescued will allow others to take charge so they don’t have to, because they believe they can’t manage their own life.

Know this, you DO NOT, EVER NEED RESCUING from your emotions.
Your emotions are your greatest asset.

What you do need are tools and support to implement new ways to think and be.
Your confidence will grow as you prove to yourself you have what it takes to be in control of your own emotions, your own thoughts, and your own actions.

This confidence will give you the courage to create and maintain a red velvet rope policy around yourself.
Putting in place safe guards that empower you to be the person you were born to be.
The red velvet rope policy is about you, it’s about you creating a safe haven for your emotions to live, and keeping anyone who is unsafe out.

Today’s Seed of Greatness is Make your LIFE a chic SANCTUARY.

oxox Linda

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