As a woman you have a deep soul spirit that takes a lot to extinguish.
Even as life knocks you down, or bowls you over, you get back up and keep on going.
It’s not what happens to you, it’s how you use what happens to you, that makes you stronger. Sometimes you are slammed against the wall, winded and bruised, your spirit is still fighting on for what you believe in. If you are raising children, you know the fear of letting do things on their own. Hovering but not too close, children need to experience life for themselves, within safe environments. This is how they figure out they can handle whatever life throws at them. As mother’s this feels like a heavy load, and a thankless one as well. My first born son was a handful as a young child. If he was told no, that was his directive to find out what was so attractive about what he wasn’t allowed. Back in the day, I was a sergeant major mother. You did it my way, and you did when I told you to or else. This no. 1 son nearly always took the or else road. So tiring, As I have gained more tools in my parenting kit, I think I would do certain things in a different way. For starters I’d make peace with myself. Angry mum’s who don’t like themselves do not parent or adult for that matter, very well. Learning to get to know yourself as a woman is vital to building a live long happy relationship with the woman that is you. When life trips you up, and you fall flat, when you find yourself alone, having a relationship with the woman in the mirror is essential. Often this is the very relationship that gets neglected as time marches on, with our littlies, turning into school age children, then preteens and then teens. Trusting yourself that you actually do know what is best for you, and your children is a huge step in the direction of confidently handling your life. You can handle anything.
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