What do you want to be in the gifts under the tree?
What are you willing to do to become the “I am wanter”?
What will it take for you to be an “I have appreciator”?
With the New Year knocking at the door.
I’ve been thinking at lot lately about “I wants”. The other day some-one asked me a question. “If you could have anything for Christmas, what would you want?
My mind went fluttering off into the library of “Linda, I wants” . She was filtering, sorting, and deciding. She was looking for agendas that hadn’t been voiced. “Was this some form of trap?” “What would happen if I shared what I really wanted- would I be laughed at? shamed? or put down?”
She trolled through the file cabinet of budget dreams, you know, the ones you have, because of yours or others lifestyle means, where you don’t want to offend or be offended. In the end, I didn’t share anything. I deferred the question. The risk of sharing was too high, and I couldn’t figure out an ‘acceptable’ answer.
This got me thinking about Pie- in – the- Sky wants – the ones you think you’d love, but don’t believe are possible for you. Like owning your own home, buying a brand new car, being the leader in your field of business.
What if instead of wishing and wanting, we become “I am wanters?”
What is an “I am wanter?” ‘So glad you asked?’
An ‘I am wanter,’ is some-one in pursuit of their want. They are some-one who guards their dream, from outside dream catchers, while living into their want from the inside out.
An I am wanter, is some-one who treats the home they are living in, as if it were their own, they decorate it with the type of furnishings they see in their own home, they clean the house they are living in with the diligence they would clean their own home. They are living in the “I am” right now, as if.
Our subconscious mind can’t tell the difference between fact and fiction. So why not create the life you want to live by becoming who you see yourself being.
The I am wanter- dresses as if, thinks the thoughts you’d think when your goal is manifest in your life, now, before it is here physically.
The I am wanter- is on the road, they don’t have to share their wants, because they’re bringing them into fruition. They are walking towards, instead of talking about their dreams.
The I am wanter- Isn’t in a hurry to get to the end (Of the goal achieved), they savour the journey, they know that the enjoyment of living is in the moment. By slowing the moment down and extracting all the emotions, sensations and enjoyment from it, the journey becomes sweeter.
The want becomes less important than living in the moment, and then, because you’re not stressing and striving to make your want appear, your subconscious energy- draws it to you.
The ‘I am wanter’, becomes the person who has the very thing they want.
Then they become the “I have appreciator.”
The “I have appreciator” is thankful for all the things they already have. They appreciate the old car they are driving, while treating it like they would a brand new car.
The ‘I have appreciator’ is grateful for the old sofa, while treating it with the care and respect they would their new one.
The ‘I have appreciator’ knows that how they treat what they already have, will be exactly the same way they’ll treat their ‘I want’ .
It is an inside job, we have two realities, our inner reality and our outer reality. The outer reality is the evidence of the inner reality, of what we believe to be true about ourselves.
When you are the slender person you want on the inside, it will show up on the outside, and along the journey you will tweak the outside appearance, tweak the way you eat, the way you dress, the way you feel your emotions rather than eating to avoid them. Your outside world moves to match your inner world, the image you hold of yourself. You become the “I am” of your internal view.
The journey to your ‘I want’ – no matter how big or small begins, from the inside.
Become the ‘I am wanter”, imagine yourself having and being the person who has your want.
I am … (want) A home owner
I am … (want) Slender
I am … (want) Wealthy
I am … (Want) Loved
Your most valuable assets are your imagination and your intuition. Hone these skills and the other assets required for you to be the “I have appreciator” shows up. Before long you are the “I am” you wanted, and the things you want are on their way to you.
So instead of just wanting, focus your want. Become the person who is required, to have and be skilled to make your want your reality, take the needed actions, over and over until you are the “I am” of your internal vision.
Until next time, become an “I am wanter” rather than a one-day when, wanter. Slow the moments of time to enjoy them.
If you resonate with this message, to become a focused wanter, and you want help to learn how to use your imagination and intuition to make your wants a reality from the inside out. Contact me.
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