SELF-ESTEEM Affirmation

What you say to yourself is so important.It can make or break the way you respond to a situation.Do you hide your true feelings from yourself?What are you afraid of?How you speak to yourself matters. Love is everywhere you go, Seeing love everywhere you go is an attitude, Being love everywhere you go is whoContinue reading “SELF-ESTEEM Affirmation”

Accept or Reject Your Choice.

How many of the thoughts you think in an hour are actually thoughts you choose?What happens when someone says something to you that you disagree with?You have the power to accept or reject a thought or an idea.You can cancel any thought you don’t want Whenever a NEGATIVE thought concerning your PERSONAL POWER comes toContinue reading “Accept or Reject Your Choice.”

Obstacles are Great Teachers

Hello My Friends Don’t you wish sometimes that with a click of your fingers, you will overcome the obstacle that is sitting in your way? The thing about obstacles, is they have so much for us to learn from them.Situations that challenge us, do so because we haven’t mastered those particular skills yet. Obstacles involvingContinue reading “Obstacles are Great Teachers”

20 Ways to identify a Martyr.

A martyr is a way of thinking and believing, and as such can be changed.Learning how you behave and think is the first step to change.Please do not beat yourself up it you see traits of the martyr in your life.You have the power to create a new life. Hello My Friends. Martyrs behave inContinue reading “20 Ways to identify a Martyr.”

What do you gain from playing the martyr?

Everything we do, we do for the feeling we believe we will gain from doing the thing.What do we gain from some of our behaviours? What am I gaining from this action or belief?Are you a martyr? Martyr: To act like someone who deserves admiration or sympathy due to being treated badly. Self-imposed suffering andContinue reading “What do you gain from playing the martyr?”

How do you Argue?

How do you argue?What are the emotions that come up for you while you are trying to get your point heard?What tactics do you use to calm yourself, so you can be part of the solution, rather than the problem? When we change the way we communicate, we change society. Clay Shirky Hello, My FriendsContinue reading “How do you Argue?”

Visibility Impeded?

How do you see your life?Have you lost something, only to find it in the place you’d already looked?Perception is the lens that we view life through.Does yours work for you? An essential part of seeing clearly is finding the willingness to look closely and to go beyond our own ideas. Cheri Huber Hello MyContinue reading “Visibility Impeded?”

Fear is Universal

F.E.A.R.False Evidence Appearing Real.or Focus, Enjoy, Attitude, Result.You have the power to define how you feel about fear, and how fear motivates or sabotages your actions and beliefs. Fear of being alone, Fear of being stood up, Fear of looking foolish, Fear of looking out of place. Fear is universal. What is your flavour ofContinue reading “Fear is Universal”

Stop playing small.

Give yourself permission to live a big life. Step into who you were meant to be. Stop playing small. You are meant for greater things. Hello, My Friends This month we are chatting about Challenging Norms. The little snippets of conversations we were taught and believed as children that don’t necessarily serve us as adults.Continue reading “Stop playing small.”

A recovering doer and your perfect guide.

Sometimes we’re tested, Not to show our weaknesses, But to discover our strengths. Hello, My Friends This week has been interesting, as a recovering doer, setting the goal to complete the dining room wallpapering had me thinking about past successes, and the attitude and energy I did them in. I have mentioned before that growingContinue reading “A recovering doer and your perfect guide.”